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Modern dating has become obsessed with attachment styles. People are trying to understand why they get attached, why relationships feel so intense, and why they keep finding themselves in the same situations. But before attachment styles became social media buzzwords, they were simply a way of understanding how we connect to other people. So let's start with the obvious question: Attachment Style? WTF Is That? If you've spent any time on dating TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube,

There’s a reason some people stay stuck in situations that clearly aren’t working. It’s not because the relationship was amazing. It’s because potential kept interrupting reality. Reality was already showing you the truth: inconsistent communication, mixed signals, emotional unavailability, last-minute effort, empty promises and affection that only appeared when you started pulling away. But every time reality became too obvious, potential stepped in to soften it. “Maybe they

Nobody falls for the red flag version first. 👀 🚩 Nobody says: “Yeah… the inconsistency, confusion, emotional unavailability, and mixed signals really sold me.” No. You're thinking that you may have chemistry. 🎯 which may be true but That’s the problem. Those rose-colored glasses on your face got you turning red flags into “potential.” Oh, they’re just busy.” 👀 “Oh, they’ve just been hurt before.” 🎯 “Oh, they just need time.” “Oh, they’re just bad at communicating.” “Oh,

Some of y’all don’t actually miss the relationship. You miss the chemistry, the emotional highs, and the version of the connection your brain keeps replaying. 👀

⚠️ Let’s Reset This First You think you’re struggling to find the right person. You’re not. You’re struggling to leave the wrong one. And that changes everything. If you’ve been following: You confuse chemistry for compatibility You judge based on moments instead of direction This is what comes after that: 👉 You stay too long (you're probably here). (You might be angry but we're excited to help you!) Not because you don’t see it…but because it feels like something you don’t

Stay with me—this might sound familiar. 👀 You’re not losing in dating… You’re making short-term moves in a long-term system. And it doesn’t feel like a big deal in the moment. It’s just a text you let slide. A small inconsistency you ignore. A moment where something feels off… and you tell yourself, “it’s still early.” Nothing serious. Until it is. Because every one of those moments is a move. And every move… creates what happens next. ⚠️ ♟️ The Chess Problem Most people don

🎯 Stay With Me: Break the Cycle of Dating Patterns I know that sounds harsh—but let's keep it 100. If you actually look at what’s been happening, it starts to make sense. Different person. Same pattern. 🔁 You took the time. You stepped back. You told yourself you were “working on you.” 😒😂 You learned your lesson. So when this new person showed up, you thought it would be different. At first, it felt different. You felt more aware, more in control, a little more guarded. A

🧨 The Signal You Trust You keep choosing chemistry… and calling it compatibility. You felt something… and called it real. A strong emotional pull can keep people attached long after the relationship stops making sense. Do you even know the difference? ⚡ What Chemistry Does Chemistry feels strong. It’s fast. It’s exciting. Either way… it pulls you in. But that doesn’t tell you much. It just means something reacted. 🧩 What Compatibility Actually Is Compatibility isn’t about h

Time alone doesn’t always heal patterns people never fully confront. (don't forget about the "Hey Bighead" texts! 😂) ⏰ You Didn’t Forgive — You Reset the Clock Let’s keep it real. You’re not healing.You’re seasonal. That “Happy Easter” text? That’s not effort. That’s access. You don’t need a sign. You need a memory. 🧠 You Knew Before The Text You knew. Not when they texted. Before that. When the energy changed.When the effort dropped.When it stopped feeling right. You noti

Let’s face it — dating can be a wild ride. 🎢Swiping, chatting, ghosting… and the same question every time: What went wrong? 🤔 But what if nothing “went wrong”? What if you’ve just been missing the pattern? That’s where The Prospect comes in. Not another dating app. Not another place to meet people. This is where you finally understand the people you’re already meeting. Because the problem usually isn’t dating. It’s what keeps repeating inside it. 🔁 You’re Not Measuring

Dating feels like a part-time job? You’re not imagining it! 😩 Matching. Texting. Voice-noting. Scheduling. Rescheduling. Coordinating locations. Debriefing with friends. All while trying to actually feel something. 💔 You’re not tired of dating. You’re tired of managing it. ⚡ Good news: you don’t have to choose between a full roster and a fried nervous system. Stop running your love life on chaos mode! 🚨 Here’s how high-intent daters upgrade their roster — without burnou

Exploring options isn’t toxic. Taking your time isn’t selfish. Dating more than one person while you figure out alignment? That’s discernment 💡But here’s where things fall apart… Without a system, dating starts to feel: • Emotionally heavy 🥵 • Logistically stressful 📅 • Way less fun than it should be 😩 It’s not that you’re dating wrong.It ’s that you’re dating without structure. And structure doesn’t eliminate romance — it preserves it.It protects your energy ⚡ so you a

Modern dating is basically project management with chemistry: Multiple conversations, shifting schedules, emotional bandwidth… and people showing their true colors on episode 3 👀

You feel like your dating patterns keep repeating, you’re not crazy. 😈 Hot Take: You already have a dating system—it’s just not working for you. Why Your Dating System Isn’t Working Yeah… I said it. 🌶️Most people don’t have a dating problem — they have an organization problem wrapped in emotional chaos… and they’re calling it “modern dating.” 💬 Take a look at your current “system” 👀: 📸 Screenshots in your camera roll to remember conversations📝 Random phone notes like “C

Let's face it: If your dating life was a project manager, they'd probably QUIT. If you feel like you keep making bad dating decisions, it’s not random—it’s a pattern. Emotional intensity can easily get mistaken for compatibility. Modern dating is not just “meet, vibe, see what happens.” It’s scheduling, follow-up, keeping track of multiple conversations, and trying to remember who said what 🤯 If your roster lives only in your head, it’s going to feel chaotic. Why You Keep Ma